Transcript of BBC Radio WM interview with Adrian Goldberg:
Adrian:
A local mum has been named as the most exceptional working mum in the country by a national support group for working mums called Mother at Work.
Her name is Carol Garrington from Cheslyn Hay, she has overcome a disability to run a public relations firm as well as being a mother to two young boys.
The 34-year-old was born with a number of medical conditions that made doctors warn her that she would never walk and never have children. She made the decision to have her left leg amputated below the knee at the age of 12 and faced years of on-going treatment.
Let’s get a word with Carol now. Hi Carol. Blimey that sounds a list of stuff that you had to go through. Were you born with some kind of condition then?
Carol:
No I had a deformity on my left side when I was born that the doctors couldn’t put down to anything in particular, they didn’t have scans in those days so they couldn’t have picked it up any sooner. It was just a process of elimination really and I had a number of operations to try and find out the cause, but there was no explanation in the end, just one of those things.
Adrian: And you made the big decision at the age of 12 to have your left leg amputated?
Carol: That’s right yes
Adrian:
What was that like? Did someone sit down and go through options with you and you came to the idea that that was the best thing?
Carol:
No, it was something that my parents thought would be better for me from an early age but they couldn’t make that decision for me it had to be my decision and by the age of 12 I was off to high school and wanted to be like everyone else and wear the nice skirts and shoes. It was a cosmetic thing for me at that age more than anything else. I was being bullied at school as well so for me it was just something I had to do and I didn’t even give it a second thought.
Adrian: And do you give it a second thought now?
Carol: I do yes.
Adrian: I mean do you regret it?
Carol:
I don’t regret it at all no, but I do think back and think what a big decision it was to make at that age but I don’t regret it, I’ve absolutely never looked back.
Adrian: And you were told that you might not be able to have kids?
Carol:
That’s right yes, I’ve got a complication with my womb that meant that I wouldn’t be
able to carry children and was told all through my first pregnancy that I could lose it at any stage, so that was quite stressful really but against the odds we got through and now I’ve got two lovely boys that I’m really proud of.
Adrian:
Well they can be proud of their mum as well because so much for your disabilities. It’s more about your abilities that has brought you to national attention. You set up your own PR firm, your own business, not an easy thing for anyone to do at any time.
Carol:
No not at all but I think that the determination that I’ve got and from people telling me from an early age ‘you can’t do this, you can’t do that’ its given me a real fighting spirit to think well if someone tells me I can’t do something I’m absolutely going to prove that I can, so I think its that really that’s got me through so many things.
Adrian: And having children at the same time, being a working mum, never easy?
Carol:
No it's not. It's very demanding being a mother and there’s lots of challenges to face and the same with running a business as well so the two combined can sometimes be quite stressful but at the same time it is so rewarding.
Adrian: What does it mean to get this recognition?